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How to Find Wineries, Sommeliers, Private Chefs, Wine Dinners, and Hospitality Experiences with Oxto

Wineries, sommeliers, private chefs, wine dinners, and hospitality experiences have never lived in one place. Oxto is building that place, organized around what you actually want to do.

By Oxto6 min read

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Finding a great winery should be easy. Finding a private chef for a dinner should be easy. Finding a sommelier who can host a private wine tasting should be easy. Finding a wine dinner, estate dinner, winemaker event, or unique hospitality experience happening in your city should be easy.

But historically, none of those things have been particularly easy to find.

You might discover a winery through Google. A sommelier through Instagram. A private chef through a friend. A wine dinner through a restaurant email list. An estate dinner through a winery’s website. And a great local event only because someone happened to send it to you.

There has never really been one place where all of those experiences live together. That is what we are building with Oxto.

Oxto is a discovery and reservation platform for wineries, wine experiences, private chefs, sommeliers, hospitality hosts, dinners, tastings, events, and other experiences centered around wine, food, travel, and hospitality.

How do I find a winery to visit?

You can use Oxto to discover wineries and wine tasting experiences based on what you actually want from your visit. Instead of searching through hundreds of winery websites individually, you can explore wineries on Oxto and narrow down your options based on factors that matter to you. Maybe you are searching for:

  • The best wineries in Sonoma
  • The best wineries in Napa
  • Pinot Noir wineries near me
  • Wineries with vineyard views
  • Affordable wine tastings
  • Luxury winery experiences
  • Boutique wineries
  • Wineries with food
  • Wineries that are good for groups
  • Wineries for couples
  • Wineries that allow wine by the glass
  • Wineries near your hotel

Oxto helps you understand what each winery actually offers before deciding where to go. For participating wineries using Oxto Reserve, you can also move directly from discovering the winery to requesting or booking a tasting.

How do I find the best wineries near me?

If you are looking for the best wineries near you, Oxto gives you a way to explore wineries based on location and the kind of experience you want. The important thing is that "best winery" means something different for every person. Someone may be looking for the best Pinot Noir winery nearby.

Someone else may want a winery with incredible views. Another traveler may want a casual tasting where they do not need extensive wine knowledge. Someone celebrating an anniversary may want something completely different.

Oxto is designed to help people find the best winery for their specific trip, rather than simply showing everyone the same list of famous wineries.

How do I find a sommelier near me?

You can use Oxto to discover sommeliers who host tastings, events, dinners, educational experiences, and other wine-focused experiences. Historically, finding an independent sommelier has usually required already knowing someone, following them on social media, or finding them through a restaurant or wine business.

Oxto gives sommeliers and wine professionals a place to create profiles, explain what they offer, list their experiences, and make themselves discoverable to people actively looking for wine experiences. For a consumer, that means you could use Oxto when looking for:

  • A sommelier for a private tasting
  • A sommelier for a birthday party
  • A wine expert for a corporate event
  • An educational wine tasting
  • A guided tasting at home
  • A sommelier-led dinner
  • A wine class
  • A private group tasting

Instead of trying to piece together recommendations from Instagram or Google, Oxto gives you a central place to discover the person and understand the experience they provide.

How do I find a private chef near me?

Oxto can also be used to discover private chefs and chef-led hospitality experiences. Maybe you are planning a birthday dinner. Maybe you are renting a house for the weekend and want a chef to cook dinner. Maybe you want a chef and sommelier to create a food and wine pairing experience.

Maybe you want something more intimate than going to a restaurant. Hosts on Oxto can showcase what they offer and create bookable experiences or events around their expertise.

That means someone searching for a private chef near me, private chef for a dinner party, or chef-led dining experience can discover operators offering those experiences through Oxto.

How do I find a private dinner or estate dinner?

One of the biggest gaps in hospitality discovery is private dinners. Some of the most interesting food and wine experiences are not traditional restaurants at all. They might be:

  • Private estate dinners
  • Vineyard dinners
  • Winemaker dinners
  • Chef’s table experiences
  • Pop-up dinners
  • Supper clubs
  • Private dining experiences
  • Wine pairing dinners
  • Hosted dinners at private homes or estates
  • Winery and chef collaborations

These events are often difficult to discover because they are promoted through individual mailing lists, social media pages, or personal networks. Oxto gives those experiences somewhere centralized to live.

If you are looking for a private dinner, estate dinner, wine dinner, or unique dining experience in your city, Oxto is designed to help you discover what is available.

How do I find a wine dinner near me?

Wine dinners are another example of something that should be much easier to discover. A restaurant might host a visiting winemaker for one evening. A sommelier might organize a Burgundy dinner. A chef might build a menu around wines from a particular producer.

A winery might host a dinner in a city thousands of miles away from its tasting room. Unless you follow the exact restaurant, chef, sommelier, or winery putting on that dinner, you might never hear about it. Oxto allows hosts to list those events so consumers interested in wine and hospitality have another place to find them.

That means you can use Oxto to discover wine dinners, winemaker dinners, tasting events, pairing dinners, winery events, and other hospitality experiences happening near you.

How do I find wine tastings in my city?

Wine tasting does not have to mean visiting wine country. There are wine experiences happening in cities everywhere. A sommelier might host a tasting in New York. A winery from Sonoma might hold a dinner in Chicago. A wine shop might host a producer tasting in Miami. A private chef might collaborate with a winery in Los Angeles.

Oxto helps bring those experiences together. So if you are searching for wine tastings near me, wine events near me, sommelier tastings, or wine experiences in my city, Oxto gives you another place to look beyond traditional winery tasting rooms.

How do I find unique hospitality experiences near me?

Oxto is not intended to be limited to traditional winery visits. The broader goal is to make interesting hospitality experiences easier to discover. That can include:

  • Wineries
  • Sommeliers
  • Private chefs
  • Wine educators
  • Wine dinners
  • Private tastings
  • Estate dinners
  • Vineyard dinners
  • Food and wine pairings
  • Restaurant collaborations
  • Pop-up events
  • Hospitality creators
  • Winemaker events
  • Wine classes
  • Private dining experiences

If someone is creating an experience centered around hospitality, food, wine, or bringing people together, Oxto can help create a place for that experience to be discovered.

Why I built Oxto

I grew up around wine country. And somehow, whenever friends came to Sonoma and asked me where they should go wine tasting, I still struggled to answer them. There are hundreds of wineries around me. My family owns a winery. I had spent years around the industry.

But knowing which wineries exist is very different from knowing which winery is right for the person asking. A college friend visiting for the weekend might want somewhere completely different from where I would take my parents. A couple celebrating an anniversary might want something intimate and beautiful.

Someone obsessed with Chardonnay might care more about what is in the glass than the view. Someone else might simply want somewhere they can sit outside, order a bottle, and hang out. And every time someone asked me for recommendations, I realized how strangely difficult it was to answer those questions.

The same problem exists far beyond wineries.

How do I find a great private chef?

Where do I find a sommelier to host a tasting?

Are there any interesting wine dinners happening this weekend?

Is there an estate dinner I can attend?

Are there any small hospitality events happening nearby?

The experiences existed. The discovery infrastructure did not. That is why I built Oxto.

Wine discovery can be intimidating

As a Gen Z wine drinker, one of the things that always bothered me about the industry was how much knowledge it seemed to assume you already had. Wine has its own language. Appellations. Varietals. Vintages. Producers. Vineyards. Scores. Clubs. Allocations. If you already love wine, that can be part of what makes it fascinating.

If you are new to wine, it can make the entire category feel inaccessible. The experience side can be equally confusing. Two wineries located five minutes apart may offer completely different experiences. One might have a $150 seated tasting. Another might let you order a glass for $20. One might specialize in Pinot Noir and Chardonnay.

Another might be known for Cabernet Sauvignon. One might feel perfect for a group of friends. Another might be where you take your significant other’s parents. Oxto was created to make those differences easier to understand. You should not need to be a wine expert to find a wine experience you will love.

Search based on the experience you actually want

Instead of starting with the name of a business, Oxto lets you start with what you are looking for. Maybe you know you want Pinot Noir. Maybe you want an amazing view. Maybe you are looking for a private chef. Maybe you want a sommelier to come to your house. Maybe you want a private dinner.

Maybe you want an interesting event this Friday night. That is how people actually think about hospitality. The question usually is not:

Which businesses exist?

It is:

What should I do?

Oxto is designed around answering that second question.

Save the places and experiences you want to try

Travel and experience planning rarely happen in one sitting. You discover one winery on TikTok. Your hotel recommends another. Someone sends a restaurant in the group chat. You find a private dinner you want to attend. A friend tells you about a sommelier you should follow.

Oxto lets you save the places and experiences that interest you so you can come back to them later. Instead of maintaining screenshots, Notes app lists, browser tabs, and group-chat messages, you can keep your hospitality discoveries together.

Create your own collections

You can also organize what you find into collections. Maybe your collection is:

  • Sonoma Weekend
  • New York Wine Spots
  • Birthday Dinner Ideas
  • Places Adam and I Want to Try
  • Best Pinot Noir Tastings
  • Private Dinners I Want to Book

Collections can be private planning tools or shareable guides for other people. If friends constantly ask you for your favorite wineries, restaurants, tastings, or wine experiences, you can build the list once and send it whenever someone asks.

Book experiences directly through Oxto

Discovery is only useful if you can actually go do the thing you discovered. Oxto Reserve helps connect those two moments. Participating wineries and hosts can offer reservations through Oxto, allowing consumers to move from discovery toward booking without having to restart the entire process somewhere else.

Depending on the experience, that might mean booking or requesting:

  • A winery tasting
  • A private tasting
  • A sommelier experience
  • A private chef experience
  • A hospitality experience
  • A special event

Oxto also supports event discovery and ticketing for experiences such as wine dinners, tastings, collaborations, and other hosted events. The goal is simple:

Discover it. Understand it. Book it.

How do I find things to do in wine country?

If you are visiting a wine region, Oxto can be used for more than building a list of wineries. You might use it to discover:

  • Wineries to visit
  • Wine tasting reservations
  • Winemaker dinners
  • Private chefs
  • Sommeliers
  • Special events
  • Food and wine experiences
  • Estate dinners
  • Local hospitality experiences

That means your trip does not have to be built around three random winery reservations you found through Google. You can build a much more complete hospitality itinerary.

How do I find wine experiences when I am not in wine country?

This is just as important. You do not need to be visiting Napa or Sonoma to use Oxto. If you live in New York, Chicago, Miami, Los Angeles, Austin, Boston, or another city, you may want to know what interesting wine and hospitality experiences are happening around you. A visiting winery might be hosting a dinner.

A local sommelier might have a tasting. A chef might be hosting a private event. A restaurant might have a winemaker coming in. Oxto is creating a place where those experiences can be discovered too.

One place to discover wine and hospitality

Ultimately, this is the problem we are trying to solve. Hospitality discovery is fragmented. Wineries live on winery websites. Restaurants live on restaurant platforms. Private chefs build personal websites. Sommeliers promote themselves through Instagram. Small events live on ticketing pages.

Winemaker dinners get announced through newsletters. Interesting experiences disappear into social media feeds. The consumer is left to connect all of those dots. We think there should be one place to start. If you are looking for the best winery for your trip, Oxto can help you find it.

If you are looking for a sommelier, Oxto can help you discover one. If you are searching for a private chef, you can explore hosts offering those experiences. If you want a wine dinner, estate dinner, tasting, or hospitality event, you can discover those too.

And when an experience is bookable through Oxto, you can go from discovering it to actually making plans. That is what Oxto is building. One place to discover and book the wineries, people, dinners, tastings, events, and hospitality experiences you actually want to experience.

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